Happiness is a very personal thing, and your happiness can not be compared with the happy feelings of your neighbour or of your partner or friends. Happiness is a state you enter when you have no desire to change a thing, being content with what happens in the here and now. Being unhappy is all about your feelings not aligned with the expectations you have. Maybe you hope for someone to make you happy, but you must realize that no one has the power to make you happy, no one can change your mind. No one has exacted the same ideas as you and no one can replace you as you are unique.
Love and Light, Wil