Recognize the beliefs you acquired from your parents, and consciously decide if you want to keep them. Forgive yourself the expectations you have from your parents. Realize that they did the best they knew how. They have been role-models that were perfect for you to have earlier in your life, leading you to the appropriate lessons and growth you needed to achieve more of your potential. You can release any of those old programs and beliefs that no longer serve you, choosing your own operating principles.
Love and Light, Wil