There is simply no point in fighting battles which has already been lost, nor is there any point in allowing the loss to continue to slow you down. The smart strategy is to accept it and to put all your energy toward a positive pursuit. Acceptance does not mean giving in or giving up, it does not mean allowing others to take advantage of you. It simply means that you look realistically at what has happened. Once you accept what is, once you stop fighting it, you are free to move positively forward.
Love and Light, Wil